傲慢与偏见读后感【优选】
当认真看完一本名著后,大家对人生或者事物一定产生了许多感想,需要好好地就所收获的东西写一篇读后感了。现在你是否对读后感一筹莫展呢?下面是小编帮大家整理的傲慢与偏见读后感,欢迎阅读与收藏。

傲慢与偏见读后感1
“凡是有钱的单身汉,总想娶位太太,这已经成了一条举世公认的真理。这样的单身汉,……人们总是把他看作自己某一个女儿理所应得的一笔财产。”简·奥斯汀在《傲慢与偏见》中描写了几对年轻人的爱情故事,小说没有重大的历史事件为背景,而是以幽默细腻的笔触展现了18世纪末19世纪初英国乡村中产阶级生活的画面,表明了作者对于爱情的态度。像夏洛蒂和柯林斯那样互不了解、没有爱情的婚姻是不会幸福的,而聪明、美丽、自尊的伊丽莎白与达西的感情则是建立在相互了解与尊重的基础上,他们才是幸福的。
初读小说中译本是大约十多年前的事了,那时只是醉心于伊丽莎白与达西这对淑女绅士之间曲折但终成正果的爱情,加之喜欢小说流畅俏皮的文笔,所以一连读了好几遍。
与小说同名的电影同样令我着迷,它在对小说的整体把握与剪裁、演员的表演、配乐等方面均可圈可点。电影限于篇幅删去了一些次要人物和情节,但伊丽莎白与达西、简与彬格莱、夏洛蒂与柯林斯以及莉迪雅与韦翰这四对年轻人的恋爱婚姻仍然脉络清楚、不枝不蔓。演员的表演可称上佳,达西由最初的'傲慢到情不自禁到放下架子倾心相爱,伊丽莎白优雅聪明、自信自尊,班纳特太太缺乏修养、忽喜忽嗔,柯林斯谄上倨下、滑稽可笑,还有凯瑟琳夫人傲慢无礼、出言荒唐,无不纤毫毕现,特别是后三位配角略带夸张的表演,实在令人忍俊不禁。电影的配乐也非常符合影片诙谐幽默的气氛,凡柯林斯出场必配以轻快富于跳跃感的音乐,凡凯瑟琳夫人出场则配以沉重庄严的背景音,给影片增色不少。
但若吹毛求疵的话,影片还是有几处不足。其一是莉迪雅与韦翰私奔后达西才特地前往伊丽莎白家,向她说出韦翰过去的卑劣行径,而小说则安排达西求婚遭拒之后即给伊丽莎白写信,解释韦翰之事。达西之所以要解释,是因为伊丽莎白误会了他,令他自尊心受挫,而待到私奔之事发生后,韦翰的品格已经暴露,解释已无太大必要。因此立即解释似乎比等到人家家中大乱再去解释更为合理。
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About the story:
Jane Austen is this novel’s writer who is a famous writer in the world,and she is famoused with her a series of novel.s.
Mrs.Bennet had five daughters,and marrying all her daughters was her biggest wish .In a genteel ball, Mr. Bingley , a friendly young man,also the host,fell in love with Jane at first sight.Jane was Mrs.Bennet 's first daughter who was simple,pure and never speaks evil of others. Darcy ,who was Bingley 's good friend ,a very proud man who seemed to always feel superior, was fond of Jane’s sister,Elizabeth. But his arrogance behavior and the smear from Wickham led Elizabeth to misunderstand and was biassed against Darcy .
Darcy couldn't restrain himself from loving Elizabeth ,so he proposed to her.But his attitude was still so arrogant ,Elizabeth declined firmly.This hit made Darcy noticed the consequence from proud and conceited for the first time. Leaving a long letter to explain the things around him and Elizabeth, he left her painfully. She felt regret after reading it . Not only feel guilty for misunderstanding of Darcy , but also ashamed for the behavior of her mother.
Elizabeth gradually changed her views of Darcy. When Darcy met her in his own manor again, his sincere attitude and dignified behavior made her considerably surprised.Finally ,they walked out of the frog which was pride and prejudice .It could be called a happy ending.
There are seven different marriages presented in the novel. Excluding the Gardiner and the Lucas, the remaining five marriages contrasts each other to reveal Jane’s opinions and thoughts on the subject of marriage.
The marriage between Darcy and Elizabeth reveals the characteristics which constitutes a successful marriage. One of these characteristics is that the feeling cannot be brought on by appearances, and must gradually develop between the two people as they get to know one another. In the beginning, Elizabeth and Darcy were distant from each other because of their prejudice. The series of events which they both experienced gave them the opportunity to understand one another and the time to reconcile their feelings for each other. Thus, their mutual understanding is the foundation of their relationship and will lead them to a peaceful and lasting marriage. This relationship between Elizabeth and Darcy reveals the importance of getting to know one’s partner before marrying. The marriage between Jane Bennet and Bingley is also an example of successful marriage. Jane Austen, through Elizabeth, expresses her opinion of this in the novel.
The last example of a marriage is a of a different nature than the ones mentioned above. The marriage between Mr. Collins and Charlotte is based on economics rather than on love or appearance. It was a common practice during Austen’s time for
women to marry a husband to save herself from spinsterhood or to gain financial security. However, Jane Austen viewed this as a type of prostitution and disapproved of it. In Pride and Prejudice, Jane Austen dramatizes this form of women inequality and show that women who submits themselves to this type of marriage will have to suffer in tormenting silence as Charlotte does.
In Pride and Prejudice, Jane has denounced the elements of marriage and society that she found distasteful. These are the conclusions of her observation of the people in her world. However in her writing, Jane has also reflected her own enjoyment in life among these people with and without their faults.
About my opinions:
Believe it or not,I have readed this story no less times no matter book movie. I readed it again and again,and the more time I read the story is more than a love story I found.
I like this story for the outsdanding characteristic of the characters.
A good book not only can bring you exciting,but also give you some further thingking.From the Pride and Prejudice,I lean a lot.First,it’s stupid to judge a person by the first impression and always have prejudice on the person who you don’t like.In a word,we can’t judge a person without any further reconigse or by other people’s words.Just like Elizabeth,under Wickham’s evil speaking she judge Darcy wad a pround and hatest man and began to have prejudice on him,and kept misunderstanding him.As a reselt,she was failed to see the merists of darcy.Other example,Mr.Binely persuadeed himself run away from falling in love with june for having heard Darcy’s word that June didn’t like him,at least no more deeper than him.This hurted two loved heart.They even almost missed each other. By the way,we can learn that pride sometimes will make you far away from others.You can’t deny that the country people didn’t like Darcy very much no matter how rich he.For,he always feels superior to the country people.And,because Darcy’s pround,he offended the girl he love.
Then, After reading this book, I couldn’t forget how eager Mrs.Bennet wants to marry off her daughters. Why is she so crazy about that?I know it’s because of money. money is very important for our lives. Money is required for food, shelter,and clothing, so many things in our life need money. With money, you can make your life more comfortable . You will be able to buy a big house with servants.But, Can money determine everything?How could a marriage maintain without love bue just for money?From the marriage between Charlotte Lucas and Mr. Collins, we found that their marriage totally depended on the position, money, and the background, not the love. Most women choose the men who can satisfy their material comforts to be their husbands at that time, just like Charlotte Lucas. She married Mr. Collins although she shared no common interests with him. She didn’t love him while she married him indeed. She persuaded herself to tolerate her husband’s strange and foolish behavior, and her only comfort
was her big new house and rich material life. While in my eye, it’s really unfortunate to rest hope on the material comforts for her rest life. Although sometimes it’s necessary to consider the property, position, and background in the marriage, it’s stupit to marry just for the money. Charlotte Lucas married for the possession not love, and on the other hand, Mr. Collins married her because he needed a wife, not for love, either. Their marriage seemed to be necessary but not happy. But how to maintain the marriage without love? Fortunately,I don’t know more them in the end of the book.
About other readers’opinions;
1: After reading this book,so many opinions accured to me. It’s really a good book to make me think much. Only can I remember is—-money and marriage. 2: he most popular among the Austen's volumes is Pride and Prejudice that takes the theme of love and marriage in a mildly humorous way of expression. As a female writer, she shows different attitudes toward marriage by depicting several young women of different descent, economic position and horizon of knowledge. A simple theme introduces a great deal of what is about life. The whole book teems with authoress' wit and insight.And this inclination and
intention cannot escape from the reach of her living circle and reveal some of her points about worldly life.
3:Love perhas is deveople by misundersdanding which make lovers know more each other and fall in love with each other.Maybe we need forgivention sprit.
4:As a lady ,I think ,we should take a more objective view to sentiment. Reputation is the most important thing in a girl’s life whenever and
wherever,just as Elisabth.
傲慢与偏见读后感3
每个人生活在世上,都会或多或少地对他人产生偏见,而当自己与对方建立起真挚的感情时,才会察觉从前的偏见并不合理,英国小说家简·奥斯丁的经典之作《傲慢与偏见》便是一个不错的例证。
这部作品主要讲述了小乡绅班纳特有五个待嫁闺中的爱女,她的夫人则以为女儿们物色如意丈夫为乐,单身青年达西,年轻富有而高贵优雅,却又有几分傲慢,他对聪明活泼的二小姐伊丽莎白有了好感,但伊丽莎白却心存偏见,导致这对有情人几经曲折才终成眷属。这部作品也由于自身的喜剧性情节、机智幽默的语言而饱受读者青眯。
简·奥斯丁的这部代表作虽然讲述的是爱情故事,但是从其中一种角度上看来,它更是一部生活剧,从婉转的文字间教导着人们应如何生活。
《傲慢与偏见》给予我们的,是美好的爱情故事,但更多的,则是教我们如何做到破立共生、用心生活,这或许才是这部作品真正的伟大之处和我们应该认真回味的地方。
“男大当婚,而一个富有的单身汉自然是要找个佳人结婚的。”试想一下,此“佳人”该拥有何种特征?中国古代老话叫做“门当户对”,如果是富有的单身汉,那么按古话所说,自然也是一位富有人家的小姐了。但出乎意料的是,在《傲慢与偏见》中富有的达西先生却娶了一位家世和身世都十分平凡的伊丽莎白。也许很多人会感到困惑,达西先生既有身份又有地位,怎么就会娶了一位看起来和自己门不当户不对的女人呢?
其实门当并不一定户对,两个人即便身份悬殊,但只要是两情相悦,再多的也无法弥补那一份珍贵的情。就如达西先生和伊丽莎白一样,是爱情令他们没有了地位的悬殊,也是爱情让他们最终走到了一起。所以,婚姻应以爱情而不是以财产与地位为基础的,门当并不一定就要户对。
然而,在现实生活中,有的人却过于追求以财产与地位为基础的婚姻。例如,在电视节目《非诚勿扰》上,就有一位女嘉宾曾提出过“宁愿坐在宝马上哭,也不愿在自行车上笑”的婚姻观,其实,我认为这确实是一个可笑的观点,如果仅仅只盲目追求物质生活,而忽略了生活,这与给了你一大笔钱却让你患上抑郁症又有什么区别呢?
不仅如此,从许多现实的女明星身上,同样能看出这样的问题。例如,港台著名影星大S前不久就嫁给了著名食品集团的董事长汪小菲;跳水运动员郭晶晶嫁入豪门……如此多的女明星嫁入豪门,这不我们怀疑,他们之间是否真的存在爱情,或是他们的'婚姻仅仅只是以财产和地位为基础的婚姻,这个答案也只有真正的当事人才得知,但从许多的女明星嫁入豪门后的悲遇可推断出,也许爱情在双方的婚姻中都未能起到太大的效果。这也是女明星的可怜之处吧,她们曾在早年时扬名一时,却在即将人老珠黄之时,为保留原有的风光,只好另寻“贵人”,然而,这种只把财产和地位看作结婚首要条件的婚姻不要也罢。
其实,我很喜欢达西先生和伊丽莎白,他们一个傲慢,一个抱有,但最后在逐渐交流中,傲慢与渐渐消除,他们也在相互的了解中慢慢爱上了对方。没有、身份和地位的,单纯只是两个人相爱了,但这足以让结局皆大欢喜。
傲慢与偏见读后感4
在《傲慢与偏见》中,就爱情主题来说,女主人公伊丽莎白女士和男主人公达西先生的结合是比较富有故事性的,“首因效应”(人们交往时往往第一印象会给人带来先入为主的效果)使伊丽莎白女士认为达西先生是个自高自大、傲慢无礼的家伙,而这个评价就当时舞会上达西先生的表现来说,也并没有冤枉他。“她还可以,但还没有漂亮到打动我的心,眼前我可没有兴趣去抬举那些受到别人冷眼看待的小姐。”换做是任何一个单身小姐,听到一个陌生男人这样含沙射影般地评价,都会生厌,何况伊丽莎白女士是个有着明亮眼睛的聪明善良而聪明的女人。自此,“傲慢”便成为达西先生的代名词,当然,至少在伊丽莎白女士前期的心中是这样认为的。而这个标签是否就是合情合理的呢?当然,随着故事的`发展,“偏见”也越发冒头了,当伊丽莎白女士拜访了达西先生的庄园起,她就意识到自己对达西先生确实缺乏公正了。可以说,是“偏见”的消解促成了他们的幸福。伊丽莎白女士存在偏见,而达西先生又何尝没有偏见呢?他看不惯她父母亲的行为举止,也看不上她家的地位和财势,尤其是她家还有几个穷亲戚,而除了她和她姐姐吉英外,她的三个妹妹他都有或多或少的不满意。于是,他就越发傲慢了,更做出了妨碍她姐姐吉英和彬格莱先生的爱情的事情。
就社会性来说,小说的讽刺之剑透过几对眷侣的终成击中了社会的某些风尚和流弊,而这也正增加了小说的社会意义,不至于与我先前所说的“纯情小说”同流。虽说伊丽莎白女士和达西先生的爱情婚姻是以美满幸福结束,但他们在交往过程中的傲慢和偏见的形成正反应出社会的一些问题。当班纳特太太一心一意只为财产地位着想而不顾女儿们的真正幸福时的丑态,在让人捧腹之余,又生发出许多心酸。当婚姻成为攀附权贵的阶梯时,爱情的影子在哪里?柯斯牧师和卢卡斯小姐的婚姻,想想就不可思议,他们两个都是“聪明人”,在婚姻的路上考虑得“面面俱到”,结果就干成了如此蠢事。如果说他们俩是有思想有见地的成年人,那韦翰先生和莉迪雅小姐的婚姻简直就是一场骗局、一场寻欢作乐的游戏。
小说在人物塑造方面采取的是单性描写,并不是多重矛盾性格的复杂描写,“一就永远是一”。吉英小姐单纯善良,一个贤良淑德形象,永远不会认为想到某人某事的阴暗面;伊丽莎白聪明活泼又独立,一个智慧女人形象,永远有自己的想法和原则;曼丽虽说描写不多,但其学术才女的形象跃然纸上,一切都是从书上得来的东西来解释生活;吉蒂和莉迪雅小姐是未成年,自有一种幼稚的疯狂女生特质。这五个女儿的形象如此,而其他人也是描写得极为成功的,虽然免不了有种单调的感觉,甚至于就整个故事情节来说,也比较直接,没有九曲回肠的曲折美,但这也或许就是奥斯汀本小说的特色吧。
傲慢与偏见读后感5
As is known to all, Pride and Prejudice which was written by a famous English female writer Jane Austen is still a classic in English literature nowadays. Jane Austen who was born and lived her whole life in England wrote six books in her life time.
Her novels all described the lifestyle and social communications of families in the countries of England as what she is familiar with. The book Pride and Prejudice is the typical one that fully expressed Jane’s view on marriage and emphasized that the benefit on economic exerts a great influence on marriage.
The characters in the novel all had their own opinions on marriage. Mrs. Bennet, for instance, has only one aim-that of finding a good match for each of her five daughters.
As for Elizabeth, who is the second daughter in the Bennet family said that only deep love would persuade her to marry which was why she would probably end up an old maid. Lydia and Charlotte, however, were two extremes. The former just married for sex, while the latter married for a comfortable home and protection.
There are just so many different characters that were all formed under the society of England in 18’s century. Then, there was filled with unfairness between men and women. Just as what Jane Austen said,”It is a truth universally knowledge, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife. ”
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jane austen is this novel’s writer who is a famous writer in the world,and she is famous with her a series of novels.
i still remember the first sentence in this book .it reads :"it is a truth well known to all the world that an unmarried man in possession of a large fortune must in need of a wife ." the undertone is very clear : the foundation of the marriage at that time is not emotion but possession. love seems to be a perpetual theme all the time .and the main story in the book pride and prejudice is not a exception .the writer tells us her views and attitudes about love and marriage in this book.
mrs.bennet had five daughters,and marrying all her daughters was her biggest wish .in a genteel ball, mr. bingley , a friendly young man,also the host,fell in love with jane at first sight.jane was mrs.bennet 's first daughter who was simple,pure and never speaks evil of others. darcy ,who was bingley 's good friend ,a very proud man who seemed to always feel superior, was fond of jane’s sister,elizabeth. but his arrogance behavior and the smear from wickham led elizabeth to misunderstand and was biassed against darcy .
darcy couldn't restrain himself from loving elizabeth ,so he proposed to her.but his attitude was still so arrogant ,elizabeth declined firmly.this hit made darcy noticed the consequence from proud and conceited for the first time. leaving a long letter to explain the things around him and elizabeth, he left her painfully. she felt regret after reading it . not only feel guilty for misunderstanding of darcy , but also ashamed for the behavior of her mother.
elizabeth gradually changed her views of darcy. when darcy met her in his own manor again, his sincere attitude and dignified behavior made her considerably surprised.finally ,they walked out of the frog which was pride and prejudice .it could be called a happy ending.
there are seven different marriages presented in the novel. excluding the gardiner and the lucas, the remaining five marriages contrasts each other to reveal jane’s opinions and thoughts on the subject of marriage.
the marriage between darcy and elizabeth reveals the characteristics which constitutes a successful marriage. one of these characteristics is that the feeling cannot be brought on by appearances, and must gradually develop between the two people as they get to know one another. in the beginning, elizabeth and darcy were distant from each other because of their prejudice. the series of events which they both experienced gave them the opportunity to understand one another and the time to reconcile their feelings for each other. thus, their mutual understanding is the foundation of their relationship and will lead them to a peaceful and lasting marriage. this relationship between elizabeth and darcy reveals the importance of getting to know one’s partner before marrying. the marriage between jane bennet and bingley is also an example of successful marriage. jane austen, through elizabeth, expresses
her opinion of this in the novel.
the last example of a marriage is a of a different nature than the ones mentioned above. the marriage between mr. collins and charlotte is based on economics rather than on love or appearance. it was a common practice during austen’s time for women to marry a husband to save herself from spinsterhood or to gain financial security. however, jane austen viewed this as a type of prostitution and disapproved of it. in pride and prejudice, jane austen dramatizes this form of women inequality and show that women who submits themselves to this type of marriage will have to suffer in tormenting silence as charlotte does.
in pride and prejudice, jane has denounced the elements of marriage and society that she found distasteful. these are the conclusions of her observation of the people in her world. however in her writing, jane has also reflected her own enjoyment in life among these people with and without their faults.
about my opinions:
believe it or not,i have read this story no less times no matter book still is movie. i read it again and again,and the more time i read the story is more than a love story i found.
i like this story for the outstanding characteristic of the characters.
a good book not only can bring you exciting,but also give you some further thinking.from the pride and prejudice,i learn a lot.first,it’s stupid to judge a person by the first impression and always have prejudice on the person who you don’t like.in a word,we can’t judge a person without any further recognise or by other people’s words.just like elizabeth,under wickham’s evil speaking she judge darcy is a pride and masty man and began to have prejudice on him,and kept misunderstanding him.as a result,she was failed to see the merits of darcy.other example,mr.binely persuaded himself run away from falling in love with jane for having heard darcy’s word that june didn’t like him,at least no more deeper than him.this hurt two loved heart.they even almost missed each other. by the way,we can learn that pride sometimes will make you far away from others.you can’t deny that the country people didn’t like darcy very much no matter how rich he.for,he always feels superior to the country people.and,because darcy’s pride,he offended the girl he love.
then, after reading this book, i cloudn’t forget how eager mrs.bennet wants to marry off her daughters. why is she so crazy about that?i know it’s because of money. money is very important for our lives. money is required for food, shelter,and clothing, so many things in our life need money. with money, you can make your life more comfortable . you will be able to buy a big house with servants.but, can money determine everything?how could a marriage maintain without love but just for money?from the marriage between charlotte lucas and mr. collins, we found that their marriage totally depended on the position, money, and the background, not the love. most women choose the men who can satisfy their material comforts to be their
husbands at that time, just like charlotte lucas. she married mr. collins although she shared no common interests with him. she didn’t love him while she married him indeed. she persuaded herself to tolerate her husband’s strange and foolish behavior, and her only comfort was her big new house and rich material life. while in my eye, it’s really unfortunate to rest hope on the material comforts for her rest life. although sometimes it’s necessary to consider the property, position, and background in the marriage, it’s stupid to marry just for the money. charlotte lucas married for the possession not love, and on the other hand, mr. collins married her because he needed a wife, not for love, either. their marriage seemed to be necessary but not happy. but how to maintain the marriage without love? fortunately,i don’t know morethem in the end of the book.
傲慢与偏见读后感7
《傲慢与偏见》是一部很好的小说,但最初接触它而是根据它改编的同名电影《傲慢与偏见》,可能因为看电影的原因让我对书中的人物有一个想象的反差,电影中的达西并不是多么英俊潇洒,但书中的描述是那样的完美,但好多的故事情节还是比较贴合原著的。
我喜欢书中的伊丽莎白,她虽然没有姐姐那么美丽有气质,但她读过很多的书,这让她在精神气质上胜人一筹,并且这也使她更加理性的看待事物,具有较好的分辨本事,拥有一般人没有的灵性。她活泼却又不失文静,理智不失感性,她感情丰富,有自我的感情原则,不盲目追求感情带来的新鲜感,对感情较为有主见。
最初,在盛装的舞会上,达西始终是一副冰冷的样貌,当大家都沉浸在喜悦中时,他的冷淡显得那么的不入流,人们都认为他是不合群的人。在伊丽莎白的眼中,她觉得他充满了傲慢,对谁都爱答不理,因为他是大城市来的,他拥有着丰厚的家产,这在那群乡下人的眼中是一个很好的择婿对象,各家都在努力让自我的女儿能有更多的机会与他交谈,即使他看起来是如此的冷漠无情。可是,伊丽莎白她不,她不刻意逢迎,也不避讳什么冒犯的话,她只是想说出自我想说的话,那是没有人能够禁止的。
看似矛盾的两个人,看似冷淡的一个人,看似不屈服的一个人,却在两人之间产生了爱的火花,那不是像邻居女儿为了嫁出去而盲目结婚的感情,也不是像妹妹处于懵懂的时期的活力感情,那是两颗心在经历了无数的坎坷与折磨,选择与痛苦的'感情,他们追求的并不仅仅是那两情相悦的喜悦,在他们的内心里都在深深被对方折服,这是一种超越了一般感情的感情。两个人最终走到了一齐,这是命运的安排,也是他们自我的努力。
傲慢与偏见的存在可能会拉开人们之间的距离,使心与心逐渐远离,可是那并不是永远的,要相信时间,时间会解决一切,它会让人忘记一段过去,忘记痛苦,它也会让人在逐渐的磨合中消融冰川,解开尘封的心灵。
读傲慢与偏见有感800字虽然,像达西和伊丽莎白这样的感情只能是可遇不可求,但我们要做的还有很多,至少要多多的充实自我,使头脑清晰,理性,理智,在理智中能够感性的对待感情,不做仅有躯壳而没有实质的人,那样感情会得到更过心灵与情感上的结合,也许走的会更长久。
傲慢与偏见读后感8
最近为了练习英语就每天坚持朗读英文原著,刚读完《傲慢与偏见》,想着要记录点什么,所以就随便写了写。
如果你看过《傲慢与偏见》,你会更喜欢哪个姑娘呢?或者你觉得你更想成为哪个?或者你觉得你是哪一个呢?
家中长女Jane,是一个美丽大方、温良贤惠的姑娘,虽然爱情的路上走过坎坷,但是最终也是有情人终成眷属。Jane是个善良的女孩,知女莫若父,当Binley向她求婚以后,而她的父亲而为此担心,父亲担心她太善良而被仆人欺负,担心她太慷慨以至于入不敷出。我想,Jane应该是绝大部分男人的选择吧。
作为女主的Elizabeth,这个角色应该是女生喜欢的比男生喜欢的多,长相不差,性格活泼,思想独立,为人处世不卑不亢,始终坚持有自己的选择和追求。然而与Darcy一路来的相爱相杀着实让两人受了不少的苦。可是,感情不就是这样吗?从一开始的不了解有所误会,在误会的过程中你来我往的不断碰撞才能越来越了解,虽然,大部分人在这过程中走散,可是经历过后依然还能走到一起,这样的结局不是更美好吗?E从来没放弃自己内心的追求,当Collins向她求婚的时候她可以断然拒绝,因为他不是她所喜欢的,虽然她的拒绝让浅薄的老母亲气愤,却得到了父亲的绝对赞成;当初次遇见Wickham时,她愿意倾心于他,认清他本质后也可以做到放弃幻想,而不是一味地沦陷;她可以做自己,无需为世俗牵绊,当Darcy第一次向她求婚时,她可以因为当时的误解(当然她也不知道她误解了他)断然拒绝他,可是当她慢慢发现D并不是自己以为的那个样子,当了解了真相以后她又可以义无反顾地爱上他,性情率真到这个地步,我想哪怕现在很多人依旧做不到吧。遵从自己的内心,追寻着自己内心的想法,我想这也才是她这个人物所让人着迷的地方。不会为了财富、地位而随随便便和他人结婚,对于婚姻的坚持就是需要情感的加持,试问,当下又有几个人可以做到呢?芸芸众生们,没有房子车子票子,有几个敢于走进婚姻?
关于E,我想现实中会有很多E,E们保持着自己的优秀和理智,但很现实的是社会上没有太多、甚至是没有Darcy,即便有,Darcy们也很优秀,停留在一个E上的时间并不会很久,如果发现在E身上看不到希望,就会放弃,然后继续向前追寻着下一个E。过去不能理解这样的,难道优秀的E不值得Darcy们再努力下吗?不值得D们再多驻留一段时间吗?而现实是不能,D们是理智的,人生苦短,这个不行,还有更优秀的。所以,现实,大部分E们被剩下了。所以,e们,虽然我们很优秀,可是真的也要大胆现实一些,如果总是在试探、等待、迟疑中度过,我们就很可能错过一个又一个类似D这样的人,虚度了D们的时间,更蹉跎了自己的岁月。而且,还必须承认的是,年薪百万、愿意斥巨资为你解决家庭矛盾、不顾家族一切的阻力来到你身边的D,现实中真的是海底捞针,假如真的存在,我们又有什么条件能匹配的上呢?我们是否拥有较好的面容?是否还有一份从容的优雅?是否还拥有一份纯真的爱心?是否还能有原则地拒绝一路来遇到的Collins们、Wickham们、不顾一切地等待着D的到来?而当他来到的时候我们能够勇敢地去接受吗?当我们还像个少女一样抱有幻想的时候,是否也能在枯燥无味的生活继续为自己添砖加瓦让自己更优秀、而不是虚度光阴只剩下一个等字?承认现实,才是最美好的幻想。原著的作者,优秀如她,却也终究没能遇到自己的D,一生未婚孤独终老。
三女儿Mary,其实没多大印象。大概她是自卑的,毕竟两个姐姐那么优秀,她会为这个而自卑,所以转向内在的追求。我想,每个自卑的孩子都这样吧,因为某方面的不如人而心生自卑,过度沉迷于自己的世界。如果能够找到另外一种注意力,把精力都投入进去,我想会把那件事做的很好;相反,那些找不到途径排解自卑的,在自己的世界越陷越深的人会过的很痛苦。我想,Mary是幸运的,毕竟她知道自己可以通过加强自己的内在而让自己更优秀。虽然沉默寡言不善交际,可是,她的内心世界精神生活却不孤独,虽然也会有些不自知之明。
像Mary这样的女孩,自卑于自己的外貌,转而注重内在才华的培养,其实也有些忽视了个人魅力的注重。想到了过去的自己,自我标榜不看重外貌,只注重内在,所以外形不管不顾,以为会有人透过现象看本质发现自己。可是,正如杨澜所说“没有人会透过你邋遢的外表,去发现你优秀的内在”。是呀,当我想通的那一刻,我开始学着去化妆,学着去搭配穿搭,学着去做发型,当我改变以后,外界的反馈比我想象中要好很多,旅行中有人主动跟你要微信,进店被人夸精致的小姐姐,连女生都会夸你的发型、美甲,就连自己一直自卑的身材,也会得到别人的夸赞(可能是自己坚持练瑜伽的原因)。真的,每个人的欣赏点都不一样,也许,我们所不赞成的,却是被他人所赞美的。当收到这些外界的夸赞时,我发现自己的自信慢慢地在积累,敢于自信地出现在人前了,敢于走出自己的小世界,发现更多外面世界的美好。以前对自己的外在非常的自卑,以至于破罐子破摔,恶性循环后更加的自卑,可是当我走出自己的小世界,尝试着去改变的时候才发现原来自己也可以很有魅力,才明白每个人都有自己的闪光点,我们不必是倾国倾城的美人(毕竟绝大多数人做不到)收获所有人的欣赏,我们只需要展现自己的优点即可,欣赏你的人无需太多,但这其中必须有一个是自己。所以,像Mary这样的人,如果过于沉浸在自己的自卑世界里,满足于活在自己狭隘世界里,真的会过的很痛苦,会越来越狭隘。而我,这样的生活过了十多年,真的是深有体会,希望每一个Mary敢于修饰自己的门面,这样才能让他人有了解自己的动力,而不是甘于“酒香不怕巷子深”,毕竟,我们绝大部分都不是天生丽质,再说,好酒也会挥发呀,就不担心在被人发现前自己就挥发完了吗?毕竟,每一个Mary都不甘于现状,那何不去改变呢?
Kitty是个幸运儿吧,早期跟着放荡不羁的小妹Lydia玩,在还没走上弯路之前,后期跟着两个姐姐过,眼界、学习、素养都慢慢上了档次。年轻放荡不羁、恣意妄为,长大后被两个姐姐带着走上正轨,何尝不是种幸运呢?我们都年轻过,年轻的时候我们都不知道自己要的是什么,容易被身边的人误导,也许有时候会走上歧途,以至于我们的人生道路走的要比别人要困难些,为了到达同样的目的地,我们需要比别人多走一段路,可是Kitty在中途被人拉出来走上了正路。现实中我们有几个能有如此幸运呢?我想,我们中的大部分都必须为自己的错误买单,走完自己选的路,直到下一个路口,我们才有重新决定方向的选择权利。然而,如果一开始就一条道走到黑,就永远失去了选择的权利。人生没有了主动、只能甘于被动是多么无奈的一件事。
我想,我还是有些喜欢Lydia的,虽然她无知、放诞不羁,可是,正因为无知才能无畏,对于自己喜欢的东西她勇敢的去追求,虽然结果不一定美好,可是她敢于走出第一步。现在的社会,或者说长大后的我们,每一个都变得小心翼翼,各种试探、害怕结果,所以永远止步不前,所以我们永远停留在开始。踏出第一步,我们才能知道自己是对了,还是错了,对了我们就继续往前走,错了,我们才能找到自己的不足。我们可以停一停,想一想,改正错误后,哪怕我们要回退一大步才能重新上路,也是值得的。人生到了一定阶段,我真的挺羡慕Lydia那一份勇敢的,虽然带点无知,可是,她有什么错呢?她也才不过10几岁,我们十几岁的时候又有多懂事呢?反而,当我们三十好几的时候,有多少人已经失去了L这份不顾一切、只为内心的勇敢呢?当然,Lydia的无知与短视,却是我们所要摈弃的。
小说中的Charlotte,应该是现实中普罗大众的真实情况,我们的大部分没有太过优越的条件让我们去选择过于美好的东西。C敢于妥协于生活,她也并不为此而感到痛苦难过,反而是坦然接受。当她遇到Collins的机会时,她也欣于接受,这样的.她,我想是可爱的。她也受过良好的教育,但并不高不成低不就,正如当E问她的时候,她可以回答
I see what you are feeling,”replied Charlotte.“You must be surprised, very much surprised—so lately as Mr. Collins was wishing to marry you. But when you have had time to think it over,I hope you will be satisfied with what I have done.I am not romantic,you know;I never was.I ask only a comfortable home;and considering Mr.Collins’s character,connection,and situation in life,I am convinced that my chance of happiness with him is as fair as most people can boast on entering the marriage state.
遇到了机会敢于去争取。现实中,太多人好高骛远,或者过于理想主义,以至于等到最后什么都没有,还抱怨人生,其实,有什么好抱怨的呢?如果不愿意做C,那就勇敢地去追寻,提升自己,让自己有自信地去追求自己想要的。当然,不要像Lydia那样的无知。
Jane嫁给了自己梦想的生活,所有年轻时候的女孩们都有过这样的憧憬,嫁给白马王子;然而,现实是,我们会成长,历经种种磨难与考验,之后我们得到了改造,得到重生,找到自己的新生活,就像E一样;可是,大多数的我们,没有优秀努力到可以推倒过去迎来新生,所以我们会妥协,活成了Charlotte那样,知道自己的能力有限,所以向生活妥协,选择和自己一样平凡的人生;当然,我们也可能依旧活的简单如Lydia一样,过着自己都不明白的生活,或者说对于未来考虑的少,注重当下,为了当下的快乐,追求着简单的生活。
年轻的时候我也幻想着像Jane一样,最终遇见自己的Bingly嫁给高质量的爱情,长大后历经种种却也还没达到像E那样的结局,我想,也许有一天我也会像C那样妥协生活,但已经不可能活的像Lydia那样了,更不可能像kitty那样还有条件得到向上的保护,当然,也不排除像Mary那样,继续傲娇地活在自己的内心世界。
小说里的男性,如果要说一个,我想应该是老父亲吧。如果能有一个理解自己并无条件支持自己的父亲,我觉得人生真的会走的舒心很多。当母亲气愤逼迫E接受Collins时,父亲无条件支持自己女儿做自己
“An unhappy alternative is before you,Elizabeth.From this day you must be a stranger to one of your parents.Your mother will never see you again if you do not marry Mr. Collins, and I will never see you again if you do.”
;当大女儿要嫁人时,他也会真实给她忠告
“You are a good girl;”he replied,“and I have great pleasure in thinking you will be so happily settled.I have not a doubt of your doing very well together.Your tempers are by no means unlike.You are each of you so complying,that nothing will ever be resolved on;so easy,that every servant will cheat you;and so generous,that you will always exceed your income.”
;对于任性的lydia,他大胆的放她去历练,虽然后面失控了,可是他知道那样的她确实需要一些人生的历练;对于mary,他知道她是过于自卑的孩子,所以他让她沉迷于自己的内心世界精神生活,虽然成为一个书呆子,但他也不强迫她去做自己不喜欢的事。我想老父亲也是能力有限的,对于孩子也是能帮到的尽量帮,顾不过来也愿意放手让她们去追寻自己的生活,我想这也算是个合格的父亲吧。毕竟,当下那么多的父母,以爱的名字,口口声声为了你好,强迫改大学志愿,强迫孩子嫁娶给自己挑喜欢的人选,强迫孩子做自己认为好的工作,把孩子束缚在自己的视线范围内。Mr. Bennet这位老父亲着实有些可爱。
傲慢与偏见读后感9
After a term’s reading, I finished ten more books, however, what impressed me most is Jane Austen and her two classical books. In China maybe we all know LiQingzhao, a great female poet whose poetry are full of the emotions from the bottom of her heart. However, in England the figure maybe is my most admirable authoress Miss Austen who can never have too many respects from the common people just like me. After read her two masterpieces of books Pride and Prejudice and Sense and Sensibility, I feel so proud of being female to see a world-famous authoress using her independent thoughts, humor words to show us the relationship between the so-called superiors and the lower-class. At that time, neither in the east nor in the west, it is not so easy for a woman to become a great figure with literary reputation. In China Li made it, while in England Miss Austen with her unique characteristic also realized her dream after a long struggle with the temporal points. It seems that all in Jane’s life, she made a decision between sense and sensibility; once there was an old saying “Affection is desirable, money is absolutely indispensable.” She resolutely chose her true love but not a splendid life or a comfortable home, what a pity she can not marry the one she did not really love even a beloved one, in her short life, she finished six famous books with her heart and soul but never married and stayed single for ever. When reading Pride and Prejudice, I wondered why the oldest sister in the Bennet family also was named Jane, is there any possibility Jane Bennet is the soul of Miss Austen; and Miss Austen expected to realize all the pity which can not come true in her real life, so Jane Bennet was pictured as prefect as possible to be the best of the five sisters. It’s a classical book with abundant description of everyone’s inner heart, especially the changes in their hearts. It can never deserve too many analyses for it was so wonderfully worked. One can say anything but ordinary to show our respects and admiration. The man said“I do not have that talent of conversing easily with people I have never met before.” The woman said“We all don’t know him.” The book is full of the man’s pride and the woman’s prejudice in its lines and words.
From his pride we can see his confidence and persistence; whereas from his pride we can’t see his kindness and gentleness which he hid behind the surface. From her prejudice we can see her firmness and treason; whereas from her prejudice we can’t see her expectation and worries which she hid behind the surface. So it gave us a beginning of the story of pride and prejudice and led us to Miss Austen’s emotion world. So wonderful a book, so classical a story, so prefect a happy ending made it never a problem whether his pride or her prejudice counted, because of love, all can be neglected. In the book once the proud Mr Dracy talked about the traits an accomplished woman must have, it needed a thorough knowledge of music, singing, dancing, drawing and modern languages, and besides this, a certain something in her manner of walking, in her voice and her behaviour. What’s more, something more solid, the improvement of her mind by wide reading. It could never be too strict for a common woman to follow. About the attitudes to the marriage, Charles Dickens in the Oliver Twist also showed us the opinions of that day, he said if a man has ambitions to enter politics, then he marries a woman with a stain on her name, over though it’s not her fault, it might spoil his chances of success in his life. The society is cruel, people might use the knowledge of his wife’s doubtful birth against him, and against his children, too. And one day, he might begin to regret his marriage. But love is so great that nothing can conquer it, and in the Pride and Prejudice we see the type of classical love, if we say in the realization we are so sorry to see the over more interest lead us to forget what love is, what a pity when love is not so pure as it should be, what a pity when love is used as a medium of exchange. To my happiness the books inflected Miss Austen’s marriage view, it is wrong to get married for property, money and states. She objects to getting married for money and regarding the marriage as a trifling matter. She also points that the man and the woman’s emotion is the foundation of an ideal marriage.
After reading it, I feel that I just want to turn Elizabeth who is ordinary but with special beauty, brave but with a little stubborn, though she is not a prefect woman our eyes, she does be a woman with prefect disadvantages. To the hero Mr Dracy, I feel that I just want to marry a gentleman like Mr Dracy who always puts his love deep in his heart, till the day he made sure that Elizabeth was the one he wanted to spend the rest time of the live. Under the handsome and gentle; proud and serious face, there was a kind heart full of love. Pride is just like a piece of beautiful clothes which is luxurious and untouchable. However, the expense of pride is loneliness. Prejudice is just like the clouds floating in the sky with its freedom. However, the expense of prejudice is lost. What I learnt from the books and Jane Austen is deeply printed in my mind and I should never forget Elizabeth and Mr Dracy’s prefect love story, they usefully influenced each other. His mind might have been softened and his manners improved by her sociability, and she might have learnt from his greater judgment and knowledge of the world. Just like a fairy tale, the price and princess have a happy live together, which I am looking forward.
傲慢与偏见读后感10
开头的第一句话是“单身男人一旦有了钱财,必定想寻妻觅偶,这是一个举世公认的真理。”这个真理说明经济条件是婚姻的,即使婚姻有两种,一个是理性的婚姻,还有一个是经济条件为基础的婚姻。
贝内特先生只有五个女儿,并没有男性继承人。所以,女儿的婚姻就成了贝内特太太的头等大事。而一个租了他们的别墅,家庭富足的单身汉宾利成了贝尼特太太的目标。“一个男子初到某地左邻右舍,即使对他的感受与想法一无所知,左邻右舍总是把他视为自己某个女儿应得的一份财产。”贝内特太太拥有着这个想法,他的邻居也同样拥有着这个想法。其实,贝内特太太只是一个性格平庸,喜怒无常,并无见识的人。在晚上会上的宾利小姐和凯撒林夫人都是很势力的女人,虽然他们是不同的社会阶级,但是他们都是愚蠢的。贝内特太太其实只是想看到自己的女儿结婚幸福,并且拥有人物质上的财富。所以,忙于生活,没有情绪,似乎她的神经,正如她所说都撕裂了。
生活中的例子比比皆是,在那个时候婚姻显得如此的重要,但是婚姻太难了,就如夏洛特,她只能选择物质基础的结婚,虽然缺少爱情,但衣食无忧过的滋润,也看出她是作者奥斯丁既讽刺又可怜的对象。而丽迪亚追求的是一种既没有爱情,又没有经济为基础的婚姻,也只能是彻头彻尾的失败,也是很讽刺的',婚姻也就是这样。而达西消除了傲慢,伊丽莎白消除了偏见。美好的婚姻就在这傲慢与偏见中产生了出来。
经过一连串有趣的周折后,误会终于得以消除。达西克服了傲气,伊丽莎白也克服了对他的偏见,最后两人终成眷属。合上书的那一刻,我对男主角达西和女主角伊丽莎白在追求各自幸福中所显露出来的执着的勇气敬佩不已。真的难以想像,如果聪明的达西在第一次求婚遭到拒绝后,没有勇气去面对并改正自己的性格缺陷,或者他俩谁都没有勇气去克服财产与门第的悬殊,他们还会幸福吗?
人生之旅中,我们每一个人都是寻梦者。梦是巫山峡壁上缀着的那团闲适的白雾,不知何时来,何时去,去向何方;梦是一条伸向河里的若隐若现的虹,现到最美的时候也是它即将消逝的时候。梦是何等神奇,令人魂牵梦绕!它引无数的追梦者背负着黄河的淤泥,手捧长江的清纯,迈着日月交替的脚步,追赶着问题的音符。这其间每一段艰辛的历程,无不饱含着奋斗的辛酸,无不需要我们以足够的勇气去面对,去承受,去拼搏。
事实上,像达西这样的人物有很多。四面楚歌中,项王仍悲歌慷慨:“力拔山兮气盖世,时不利兮骓不逝”;曹孟德更是在“对酒当歌”中,一边感叹“人生几何”,一边执着地吟出“青青子衿、悠悠我心”。此时的我们正值青春,就如绚丽的花朵在绽放,我们充满希望,渴望自由呼吸,自由飞翔。而这一切,都需要我们有勇气去争取。幸福那么近地悬着,亲爱的朋友,你还在犹豫什么呢?
勇者拾梦,相信破茧而出的,不再短暂,我们将拥有人生全程的美丽!
傲慢与偏见读后感11
最近,我读了《傲慢与偏见》这本书。结局能够说是皆大欢喜的,简、伊丽莎白、莉迪亚,贝内特府中的三姐妹都找到了自我心中的如意郎君。这时,三姐妹间就不免会产生比较。
以贝内特太太一类人的视角来看,伊丽莎白自然是最成功的,其次是简,最终是莉迪亚。为什么?贝内特太太是一个肤浅的人。她期望女儿们能够嫁出去,并且嫁一个好人家。在她看来,金钱与地位绝对是衡量一户人家好坏的重要标准。达西、宾利、威克姆中最有钱有势的,就是达西。而以贝内特老爷一类人的视角来看,简无疑成功幸福,但伊丽莎白更胜一筹。为什么?贝内特先生是一个有内涵的人。他注重的是灵魂精神上的配对。他最疼爱的一个女儿就是伊丽莎白。伊丽莎白聪明坚强,有主见;而达西善良稳重,有思想,他能给予伊丽莎白幸福,彼此也情意相投。
所以,无论如何评价,伊丽莎白都是最成功最幸福的。能够有这样的结局,仅仅是因为她出众的颜貌吗?这是绝不可能的。我觉得,是由于伊丽莎白迷人的人格魅力。
伊丽莎白冰雪聪明,可爱伶俐。她不在意权势。中层的人也做知心朋友。夏洛特只是公爵家普通的一个姑娘。可是伊丽莎白却与她无话不谈。在起初认识威克姆时,伊丽莎白十分友好,她愿意听他诉说内心的苦楚。与此同时,在应对上层人物时,她也毫不羞涩,更没有一丝害怕与惊慌。受到达西的冒犯后,她绝没有因为这个人每年有一万磅的收入,拥有半个德比郡就轻易包容理解。她将内心的不满与自我的看法统统呈此刻神情上与言语中。
伊丽莎白并不顽固不化,反而会不断思考,直到自我弄清事情的真相。她对达西抱有偏见,可是读信时,她让自我冷静下来,分析到底是谁故弄玄虚。没有让偏见与情绪轻易的左右自我。经过不断的了解后,伊丽莎白被达西的人格吸引,这更是思想的相遇,
伊丽莎白同样不因他人的言语,甚至攻击,放弃自我。凯瑟琳夫人先前在罗辛斯庄园的一番盘问,伊丽莎白出于礼貌的一一做了回答。凯瑟琳夫人傲慢的口吻和尖锐的提问,已表现出对丽茨家人的羞辱。可是伊丽莎白全然不自卑。巧妙的回答了她的问题,她的语气不再那样毕恭毕敬,反而不留一丝情面,狠狠地杀了凯瑟琳夫人的风头。得知伊比莎白和达西相恋后,凯瑟琳夫人更大驾光临,能够说是对伊丽莎白进行了一番逼迫,可是,她完全没有妥协。即使满城风雨,也直言不讳。不隐瞒不服输的`作风更让凯瑟琳夫人气愤不已,令这个这辈子都没有受到冒犯的女人遭到严重的打击。一番表达,还使凯瑟琳夫人弄巧成拙,促进了伊丽莎白和达西的感情。
贝内特老爷曾说:“我以为没有人能够配得上你,丽茨。”在朗博恩,没有一个女子敢同伊丽莎白一样,执着勇敢。也没有一个女子能比她更有主见与思想,也正是伊丽莎白这番独特的人格魅力让她显得无比迷人,如同漆黑夜空的一颗明星,闪耀夺目,光芒四射。
相比之下,莉迪亚呢?她被谁所吸引?谁又被她所吸引?威克姆。更何况,在莉迪亚的爱中,威克姆只是因钱才同她结婚。这亦是一个可悲的事实。倘若莉迪亚不那么放荡,不那么世俗,她的幸福也就远不止于此。人格魅力同样也能够改变一个人的人生。当伊丽莎白悠闲的生活在彭伯里时,莉迪亚还没有一处稳定的居所;当伊丽莎白欣赏眼前怡人的自然美景时,莉迪亚却拮据到写信给姐姐,渴望拿到一些钱。两种截然不一样的生活,足以展现出不一样境界的人的结局。
傲慢与偏见读后感12
读完全书后,我从伊利莎白的爱情婚姻中明白,她的婚姻既是理性的选择又有深厚的感情基础。伊丽莎白自身上体现着婚姻的真正价值和时代追求。伊丽莎白对达西先后几次求婚的不同态度。实际上反映女性对人格独立和平等权利的追求。面对情感,她保持了做人的尊严体现了思想和理性的力量;面对现实,敢于面对阻挠她的一切力量勇敢地捍卫了自己高尚纯洁的爱情。尤其值得敬佩的`是她坚持男女双方的真挚感情是缔结理想婚姻的基石,反对为了财产、金钱和地位而结婚。这在当时妇女处于无权地位把婚姻当作己出路的社会是极具进步意义的。这对我们现代女性的婚姻观和恋爱观同样有着借鉴的作用。
在现在物欲横流的社会里女性在遇到像达西一样的“高富帅”的时候是疯狂地趋之若鹜、还是偏激地敬而远之亦或是平淡地正常对待;在恋人相处时遇到摩擦的时候,是否能够自我反省,认识自我,改变自我,让自己的爱情走的更长远呢?
面对婚姻的选择时,是追求因金钱而结合的婚姻,还是享受因爱情而结合的婚姻,同样是值得思考的。因此在读完《傲慢与偏见》后我对于如何面对与选择爱情与婚姻有了一些启发!
傲慢与偏见读后感13
你,被偏见蒙蔽过双眼吗?请放下你的傲慢,你将拥有一双慧眼。——题记
《傲慢与偏见》开始,男主人公达西,并不喜欢女主角伊丽莎白,因为他的傲慢,而伊丽莎白也因为偏见而讨厌达西。但是经过一段相处,达西和伊丽莎白最终相爱了。
这让我想起以前,一位朋友总是向我数落她同桌小莉的种种不是,什么做事死板,太不近人情等等。因为对那位小莉也不是很了解,久而久之,我对小莉心生讨厌。后来老师调位子,把我调到小莉的旁边。虽然心里是极不愿意的,无奈师命难违。我皱着眉带着东西坐到小莉的旁边,重重的放下,因为用力过猛,掉了几本书。小莉被我的举动吓了一跳,随即弯下腰,帮我捡起,并笑着对我说:“我们以后就是同桌了。”我从鼻腔里哼了一声,算是回应,又从她手里把书夺回来,她的手尴尬地悬在半空中。
之后我和周围的人相处得很融洽,至于对小莉,虽不像之前那样冷淡,却也说不上融洽。直到有一天,我因睡过头,匆匆忙忙踩着铃声来到班里,刚坐下,老师就进来了,我暗自庆辛,好险。但当我看到窗外的几个检查卫生的人时,我突然一惊,今天轮到我扫地了。我惴惴不安的`读书,眼睛却不由自主的飘向窗外。过了一会,值日生走了。他们走了?!我心里的疑惑被不用受到责罚的欣喜占据,但又担心班级分数被扣,懊悔不已。下课后,我想:多少弥补一下,去了我我的值日区,发现那里很干净。自然地以为是劳动委员做的,便向他致谢。他说:“要谢就谢小莉吧。”我很惊讶!转念,也有了些羞愧,偏见蒙蔽了自己的心扉,傲慢地自以为是,漠视了小莉一次又一次的善意之举。
从此,我开始关注她,发现她其实眉清目秀,性格随和,也愿意帮助身边的同学。诸如,近旁的张敏有一道题解不开,有些心烦意乱。她便凑过去:“你看这个方法行不行?…….”最终,张敏便如同拨开迷雾见了晴天一样开心。
我看在眼里,喜在心头。欣喜得是,我放弃了蒙蔽自己多时的偏见与傲慢,即将拥有一个好朋友!
傲慢与偏见读后感14
最近读完了英文原版的《傲慢与偏见》。不怕笑话,这是我几年来读完的第一本英文小说。小说里的每一个情节都让我印象深刻,拜读的过程中我按照书中的描述在脑海里勾画出每个人物的形象。他们的形象不会像看电影那样,一下子出来,她们每个人都像罩了一层纱,鲜明但却无法看清楚,直到所有的文字都读完,那层面纱才会最终卸下,他们才神采奕奕地站在你的面前。或许这就是读小说区别于看电影带给人的快感之一,你就像导演在寻找合适的演员一样,在脑海中不断地修正、重塑、雕琢这些可爱的人物。这种快感是不能静心读书的时代,我无法感受到的,所以我想我沉浸于读小说的日子开始了,享受英文原版小说滋养的生活开始了。
我喜欢甚至可以说爱上了书中的.达西,这种主人公如果在当代他就是所谓的“高富帅”,不过只是这样评价他过于肤浅,因为不是每个“高富帅”都会那么招人爱,至少不会持久的爱。更加可贵的是他的率直,和在为消除世俗的“傲慢”与“偏见”中做的努力。
但如果说一个富人、高阶层的人勇敢地抛弃“傲慢与偏见”是容易的,他们的财富和他们受到的别人的尊重不会因为他们抛弃“傲慢与偏见”就远离他们,反而可能得到更多。但是对于一个穷人、底层人士来说,抛弃“偏见”真的是有些难,谁不愿意攀附有钱有势的人呢,谁不愿意嫁给有钱人呢,抛弃“偏见”很可能让他们失去这种改变现状的机会。所以女主人公伊丽莎白的言行就显得更加难得,也正是因为她没有受世俗毒害的女子,才显得那样独立、倔强、自信、智慧和迷人,才能获得真正的幸福。
正好说到“幸福”,我倒是也极其欣赏书中的夏洛特,她决定嫁给科林斯虽然似乎理由并不充分——自己年龄大了,是父母的负担,同时自己不是很漂亮,并不富有,虽然科林斯并不那么优秀招人喜欢,但毕竟有些财产,而且还是老实的人,同时夏洛特本也对婚姻没有太高的期望。其实现实生活中,“高富帅”“白富美”不常有,倒是不完美的人儿很多,能够认识清楚自己,同时享受自己选择的人,都会活的更加洒脱和幸福。夏洛特知道科林斯是有些无趣的人,但是夏洛特还是能在他们的婚后生活中找到自己的兴趣点,并享受这样的生活。追求自己可以够得到的,并且知足常乐没有错。
生活会因为你的改变而变好或变坏,用心去感受。
傲慢与偏见读后感15
对于奥斯丁这个人,美国文学评论巨匠爱德蒙。威尔逊说:“在英国文学近四分之一世纪的历史上,曾发生过几次趣味的革命,唯独莎士比亚和奥斯丁经久不衰。”因为这个,我品读了他的几部作品……
我不得不感叹的是,这个人留下的不仅仅是他本身让人叹怀的经典,更有他笔下鲜活的人物!
《傲慢与偏见》开卷第一句便宣称:“凡是有财产的单身汉,必须要取位太太,这已经成为了一条公认的道理。”其实这也就是说“每一位女士都要嫁给一位有钱的单身汉。”简简单单的一句话,折射出的是当代人被金钱的牢笼套住的实相,书中的人物更甚是如此!
整书让我有所深思的便是主人公们对金钱的重视度,无论婚姻或幸福他们都和一定的金钱利益扯上关系,在那时的他们眼中,或许只有钱才会给他们安全感。
因而村里一旦来了一位有钱的绅士,母亲们便认定他为自己的准女婿。所以当班纳特太太得知伊丽莎白拒绝柯林斯的求婚后十分气愤,责怪女儿不明智。以柯林斯的条件而言,可以保证伊丽莎白将来有安定的生活,在其母亲看来,放弃这样一棵“摇钱树”是一种无理取闹。在她年轻的时候,也是通过婚姻来衣食无忧,现在她更有义务要求女儿们以此获得“幸福”,没有原因,这只是一种规律。
于是这便有了书中几对男女的分分和和,当他们疲倦了与金钱的抗衡和追求,各自都放下了傲慢与偏见,作出了合乎自己的`选择。其实当他们放下的那一刻,他们就将幸福与金钱划清了界限,也重新认识了自己的价值观,但这一个个耐人寻味的篇章同时也是向读者发出了许多发人省醒的问题:幸福和金钱是交错还是平行?我们的价值观是否有存在问题?
这一切在我合上书的那一刻便有了答案!幸福和金钱并不存在一定的交集,可一旦有人歪斜了自己的人生观、价值观,他的幸福就会建立在金钱上,但要知道的是,那种所谓的幸福只是被金钱的诱惑蒙蔽了双眼,当我们醒悟的同时,我们就会发现我们犯下了多么严重的观念错误。
生活中,不要因为事物的表相和外界的干扰而找错了方向,相信自己内心的选择,放下个人的傲慢与偏见,做出道德的决定,才能拥有一个正确的人生观。金钱,利益只不过是过眼云烟,能够真正让一个人拥有幸福的还是真实,摆正内心的态度,才会有精彩的人生!
作为又一代新生力量,我们应该拥有一个正确的人生观,活出自己的色彩。
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